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sleeplessmarmarmalade said: Just wanted to say that I thought your attempts at lolita were really decent for your first tries. I hope you haven't entirely given up on wearing lolita because of what some disgusting people said to you. You definitely have the right idea about the fashion, so I really encourage you not to give up and keep improving. :)

Thank you so much, you probably don’t realise how mucha that means to me. I haven’t given up completely, life just hasn’t given me a chance to wear it recently. Thank you for your kind words once again it’s nice to know some people understand we can’t be perfect from the word go.

1 week ago
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School isn’t even about learning anymore, it’s about passing.

1 month ago
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Reading fanfics set in countries with different age restrictions to your’s, so charaters that are “underage” with years to wait could be at it like bunnies and drinking to their hearts content if the fic was set where you live.

2 months ago
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Something gettting uder your skin? Why not take it off?

2 months ago
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princess-ni-naritai said: Hi sweetie! ♥ Those anons were terribly harsh, but in all seriousness, I've been a Lolita for a few years now and I'd be willing to give you support and help in expanding your wardrobe! Talk to me sometime! I'd love to help! ♥

Thank you so much. I would love some advice on acceptable shoes and headdresses particularly for EGL if you have a spare moment. ^_^

2 months ago
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ezios-fine-ass said: what substyle of lolita are you trying to aim for? I'd be happy to make some co-ord mock ups for you on my side blog notyourlolita :)

First of all, thank you so much for offering to help. I’m trying to go for aristocrat but possibly with a hint of gothic (oh dear, it sounds like I’m describing an wine not a fashion style). Thanks again.

2 months ago
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Anonymous said: Advice for your Lolita; stop. No. My eyes are bleeding.

Once again, I was just starting out in Lolita and although I was trying very hard to improve, clearly I was not since you are the second person (or maybe the first coming back, it’s hard to tell when all you people are too afraid to use your own names) who has been so rude to me. As it stands, I have actually decided to stop trying to become part of the Lolita community and will merely wear aspects of the style as it appears to me that even a lifestlye that encourages princess like behaviour is full of people who take pleasure in insulting others and acting in a generally vile manner.

2 months ago
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So I’ve been reading a lot of snk fics recently and I’ve noticed that Eren is almost always portrayed as slipping behind in his grades or needing a lot of Armin and Mikasa’s help to get passable ones. I was just  wondering if anyone could tell me why because I get that Eren isn’t the smartest but it always strikes me that he would work his arse off to get them and would achieve them through his own hard work rather than having Armin nagging him to achieve them, just like he got into the top ten of the 104th trainees. So yeah could someone explain why they see it like this because I feel like I’m missing something.

3 months ago
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I hate having to ask for money.

2 months ago
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Liberation day parade, with inspection by the Bailiff and HE Lieutenant Governor.

2 months ago
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Just dug this out, it took a long time to do but I’m rather proud of the result.

2 months ago
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shux-delux said: Hiya! Going to try and give you some positive feedback since you seem to really want to learn about lolita and making it look good. I guess my first tip would be to try a different hairstyle. Bang-less pigtails tend to look a tad weird, and I think you'd look more elegant with your hair down, or half up. I would also not wear the choker with this outfit, as it's a bit more western goth, not really fitting in with the lolita aesthetic. I'd also look for a more flattering top, this one looks...

…odd on your arms, and I just think you could find something that would suit your lovely frame better. The skirt is a teeny bit short and not super full as lolita generally is, but should be okay. Perhaps try adding a longer full black underskirt underneath it? The dress doesn’t look the best quality, but it might help improve what you’re working with. Fashion is a brutal world. Don’t be upset by insults and good luck with your attempts. If you’d like any beginner sources, let me know!

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Thank you so much for the advice. I know what you mean about the top, I’ve been trying to find a new one for a while now, but where I live is very limited clothes/quality wise, so it is taking some time. Thanks for the tip about the choker, as a matter of interest do you think a jabot or cravat with a pin would work better (not with this top though). Finally some beginner sources would be a wonderful help.
Thanks again ^_<

2 months ago
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shineelocket said: k so, fuck those anons. your first tries in egl look great! super cute~ everyone starts somewhere (i'm such a beginner omg) just stopping by to say- keep going! don't stop! -a non-anon who has the balls to say something nice

Thank you so much, I really appriciate the support, it’s nice to know some people appreciate that I’m just a beginner and need help rather than useless critisism.

2 months ago
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These are the tales of four warriors and their adventures throughout time...

These are the tales of four warriors and their adventures throughout time...

2 months ago
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